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Don't Talk Carelessly at Business Dinners
gōng zuò工作xìn xī信息zàifàn jú饭局shàngbèiréndǎ tīng打听suí kǒu随口yī shuō一说kě néng可能dài lái带来fēng xiǎn风险

People may try to gather work-related information at dinner gatherings, and even casual remarks can create risks.

赵强
lǎo huáng老黄zuó wǎn昨晚yǒukè hù客户qǐngchī fàn吃饭yì zhí一直wènwǒ men我们gōng sī公司háiméigōng kāi公开dexīn xiàng mù新项目

Lao Huang, a client treated me to dinner last night and kept asking about a new project our company hasn't announced yet.

黄刚
yàoxiǎo xīn小心fàn jú饭局bú shì不是suí biàn随便liáogōng zuò工作dedì fāng地方yóu qí尤其shìméigōng kāi公开dexìn xī信息

You need to be careful. A dinner gathering isn't a place to casually discuss work, especially information that hasn't been made public.

赵强
méizhí jiē直接wènjī mì机密jiù shì shuō就是说tīng shuō听说nǐ men你们zuì jìn最近yǒudà dòng zuò大动作háiyì zhí一直jìng jiǔ敬酒

He didn't directly ask about confidential information. He just said, 'I heard your company has something big coming up recently,' and kept offering toasts.

黄刚
zhècáimá fán麻烦yǒu xiē有些rénjiù shì就是xiānlā jìn拉近guān xì关系zàiyì diǎn diǎn一点点dǎ tīng打听nèi bù内部qíng kuàng情况

That's exactly what makes it troublesome. Some people first build rapport and then gradually try to find out internal information.

赵强
dāng shí当时xiàolexiàoméijiēzhè ge这个huà tí话题zhǐshuōxiàng mù项目háiméigōng kāi公开bù fāng biàn不方便tán

I just smiled and didn't continue the topic. I only said the project hadn't been announced yet and wasn't convenient to discuss.

黄刚
zhè yàng这样chǔ lǐ处理duìxiàng mù项目jìn zhǎn进展nèi bù内部ān pái安排hé xīn核心shù jù数据nǎ pà哪怕zhǐshuōyì diǎn一点kě néng可能chū wèn tí出问题

That was the right way to handle it. Project progress, internal arrangements, and key data—revealing even a little can cause problems.

赵强
kàn lái看来fàn jú饭局shàngbèirénkuāliǎng jù两句bù néng不能wèi le为了miàn zi面子duōshuō

It seems that even if people flatter you at dinner, you shouldn't say more just to save face.

黄刚
méi cuò没错kāi kǒu开口qiányàoxiǎng qīng想清biān jiè边界fā xiàn发现yǒu rén有人tào huà套话jiù yào就要jí shí及时jù jué拒绝

Exactly. Before speaking, you need to be clear about the boundaries. If you notice someone fishing for information, refuse promptly.

赵强
yǐ hòu以后zhè zhǒng这种fàn jú饭局huìgèngzhù yì注意shǎohē jiǔ喝酒shǎoliáogōng zuò工作shěng de省得gěizì jǐ自己zhǎo má fán找麻烦

I'll be more careful at these dinners in the future. Drink less, talk less about work, and avoid creating trouble for myself.

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