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Don't Talk Carelessly at Business Dinners
gōng zuò工作xìn xī信息zài在fàn jú饭局shàng上bèi被rén人dǎ tīng打听,suí kǒu随口yī shuō一说yě也kě néng可能dài lái带来fēng xiǎn风险。

People may try to gather work-related information at dinner gatherings, and even casual remarks can create risks.

赵强
lǎo huáng老黄,zuó wǎn昨晚yǒu有gè个kè hù客户qǐng请wǒ我chī fàn吃饭,yì zhí一直wèn问wǒ men我们gōng sī公司hái还méi没gōng kāi公开de的xīn xiàng mù新项目。

Lao Huang, a client treated me to dinner last night and kept asking about a new project our company hasn't announced yet.

黄刚
nà那nǐ你yào要xiǎo xīn小心。fàn jú饭局bú shì不是suí biàn随便liáo聊gōng zuò工作de的dì fāng地方,yóu qí尤其shì是méi没gōng kāi公开de的xìn xī信息。

You need to be careful. A dinner gathering isn't a place to casually discuss work, especially information that hasn't been made public.

赵强
tā他méi没zhí jiē直接wèn问jī mì机密,jiù shì shuō就是说‘tīng shuō听说nǐ men你们zuì jìn最近yǒu有dà dòng zuò大动作’,hái还yì zhí一直jìng jiǔ敬酒。

He didn't directly ask about confidential information. He just said, 'I heard your company has something big coming up recently,' and kept offering toasts.

黄刚
zhè这cái才má fán麻烦。yǒu xiē有些rén人jiù shì就是xiān先lā jìn拉近guān xì关系,zài再yì diǎn diǎn一点点dǎ tīng打听nèi bù内部qíng kuàng情况。

That's exactly what makes it troublesome. Some people first build rapport and then gradually try to find out internal information.

赵强
wǒ我dāng shí当时xiào笑le了xiào笑,méi没jiē接zhè ge这个huà tí话题,zhǐ只shuō说xiàng mù项目hái还méi没gōng kāi公开,bù fāng biàn不方便tán谈。

I just smiled and didn't continue the topic. I only said the project hadn't been announced yet and wasn't convenient to discuss.

黄刚
zhè yàng这样chǔ lǐ处理duì对。xiàng mù项目jìn zhǎn进展、nèi bù内部ān pái安排、hé xīn核心shù jù数据,nǎ pà哪怕zhǐ只shuō说yì diǎn一点,yě也kě néng可能chū wèn tí出问题。

That was the right way to handle it. Project progress, internal arrangements, and key data—revealing even a little can cause problems.

赵强
kàn lái看来fàn jú饭局shàng上bèi被rén人kuā夸liǎng jù两句,yě也bù néng不能wèi le为了miàn zi面子duō多shuō说。

It seems that even if people flatter you at dinner, you shouldn't say more just to save face.

黄刚
méi cuò没错。kāi kǒu开口qián前yào要xiǎng qīng想清biān jiè边界,fā xiàn发现yǒu rén有人tào huà套话,jiù yào就要jí shí及时jù jué拒绝。

Exactly. Before speaking, you need to be clear about the boundaries. If you notice someone fishing for information, refuse promptly.

赵强
yǐ hòu以后zhè zhǒng这种fàn jú饭局wǒ我huì会gèng更zhù yì注意。shǎo少hē jiǔ喝酒,shǎo少liáo聊gōng zuò工作,shěng de省得gěi给zì jǐ自己zhǎo má fán找麻烦。

I'll be more careful at these dinners in the future. Drink less, talk less about work, and avoid creating trouble for myself.

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