A married couple discusses generational gaps and social views in families with older mothers.
Huā'er, did you see that news recently? A 48-year-old mom had a new baby boy, and her 28-year-old daughter instantly became an older sister, while the grandson is three years older than the son.
I saw it too—the comments section exploded. Some people think it's a miracle and a blessing, while others think the family relationships are all mixed up and traditional ethics are being challenged.
Actually, medicine has really advanced, and now it's not so rare for older women to give birth safely. But the risks are high too. Doctors say that women over forty have ten times the risk of chromosomal abnormalities compared to younger women.
Friends around me say the hardest part is getting along as a family later on. For example, siblings might look like mother and child, and the grandson—should he call his uncle 'little brother' or 'uncle'? It all sounds confusing.
Actually, this kind of family setup will only become more common. The post-90s and 2000s generations are much more tolerant than we were. As long as the family is willing and happy, that's what matters.
Exactly. There's no standard answer for how a family should be put together. As long as the family finds a new balance and every member feels loved and respected, that's the most important thing.
Maybe we should judge less and try to understand more. The arrival of every new life is something to be celebrated.
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