kuà nián yè
跨年夜
hái zi
孩子
chéng zhǎng
成长
New Year’s Eve and Children’s Growth
cóngkuà nián跨年rè nào热闹biàn huà变化liáodàohái zi孩子chéng shú成熟bù zú不足jiào yù教育fǎn sī反思

From changes in New Year’s Eve celebrations to reflections on children’s delayed maturity and education.

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zuó wǎn昨晚kuà nián跨年zàijiě fàng guǎng chǎng解放广场kànleyī huì er一会儿rénhái shì还是duōdànzǒngjué de觉得méiqiánjǐ nián几年nà me那么leqì qiú气球shǎoleréngènglěng jìng冷静lehǎo xiàng好像dà jiā大家duìrè nào热闹dekàn fǎ看法biànle

Last night on New Year’s Eve, I went to Liberation Square for a while. There were still many people, but it didn’t feel as crowded as in previous years. Fewer balloons, calmer people—it feels like everyone’s view of excitement has changed.

陈花
shìashuādàohěnduōshì pín视频yǒu rén有人yīn yuè huì音乐会yǒu rén有人zài jiā在家kànwǎn huì晚会qí shí其实bú shì不是rè nào热闹ér shì而是xuǎn zé选择duōlerénzhǎng dà长大lexīn tài心态yī yàng一样le

Yes, I saw many videos online. Some people went to concerts, others stayed home watching the gala. It’s not that things are less lively, but that people have more choices. As people grow up, their mindset changes too.

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xiǎng dào想到zhè lǐ这里tū rán突然yǒu diǎn有点gǎn kǎi感慨wǒ men我们yī nián一年yī nián一年lǎojué de觉得xiàn zài现在dehái zi孩子fǎn ér反而gèngmànshúmashēn tǐ身体zhǎngkuàixīnquègēn bù shàng跟不上

Thinking about that, I suddenly felt emotional. We grow older year by year, but don’t you think today’s children are actually more ‘slow to mature’? Their bodies grow fast, but their minds can’t keep up.

陈花
zàixué xiào学校gǎn shòu感受hěnmíng xiǎn明显hěnduōxué shēng学生shēng huó生活néng lì能力ruòyù dào遇到yì diǎn一点cuò zhé挫折jiùhuāngjiā zhǎng家长tàibǎo hù保护leshě bù dé舍不得hái zi孩子chī kǔ吃苦fǎn ér反而hàiletā men他们

I feel that very clearly at school. Many students lack basic life skills and panic at even small setbacks. Parents protect them too much—being unwilling to let children suffer actually harms them.

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duìshén me什么dōuhái zi孩子ān pái安排hǎokàn shì看似fù zé负责qí shí其实bō duó剥夺letā men他们shì cuò试错dejī huì机会sú huà shuō俗话说chī yī qiàn , zhǎng yī zhì吃一堑,长一智jīng lì经历zěn me怎么chéng zhǎng成长

Exactly. When parents arrange everything for children, it looks responsible, but it takes away their chance to make mistakes. As the saying goes, ‘A fall makes you wiser.’ How can they grow without experiencing things?

陈花
ér qiě而且píng jià评价tàidān yī单一yǎn lǐ眼里zhǐ yǒu只有fēn shù分数qí shí其实qiánjǐ míng几名wèi bì未必zuìxìng fú幸福dàojué de觉得néngzàizhōng jiān中间wèi zhì位置xīn tài心态píng hé平和dehái zi孩子gèngyǒuhòu jìn后劲

And evaluation is too one-dimensional—only grades matter. In fact, the top students aren’t necessarily the happiest. I think children who stay in the middle and keep a balanced mindset often have more long-term potential.

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jiào yù教育demù dì目的bú shì不是hái zi孩子dōubiàn chéng变成dì yì míng第一名ér shì而是ràngtā men他们jiāng lái将来néngdú lì独立shēng huó生活gǎn shòu感受xìng fú幸福jiùxiàngkuàniánrè nào热闹zàirén shù人数érzàixīn lǐ心里

The purpose of education isn’t to turn every child into ‘number one,’ but to help them live independently and feel happiness in the future. Just like New Year’s Eve—the excitement isn’t about numbers, but what’s in the heart.

陈花
shuōhǎoxīndeyī nián一年xī wàng希望hái zi孩子màn màn慢慢zhǎng dà长大wǒ men我们biézhǐdīngzhechéng jì成绩duōgěitā men他们yì diǎn一点zhēn shí真实deshì jiè世界píng fán平凡derì zi日子néngguòrè qì téng téng热气腾腾

Well said. In the new year, I hope children can grow at their own pace, and that we don’t focus only on grades. Let’s give them more of the real world. Even ordinary days can be full of warmth and vitality.

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