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My Meal Buddy
yōu zi优子xiǎngzhǎorényì qǐ一起chī fàn吃饭kànliú nà刘娜gào sù告诉dā zi搭子guān xì关系qīng sōng轻松dànyàozhù yì注意biān jiè边界

Yuko wants to find someone to eat with and watch dramas with. Liu Na tells her that a “buddy” relationship is relaxed, but boundaries are important.

优子
liúlǎo shī老师zuì jìn最近zàiwǎng shàng网上kàn dào看到yí gè一个jiàodā zi搭子zhèshìpéng yǒu朋友deyì si意思ma

Teacher Liu, I recently saw a word online: “dazi.” Does it mean friend?

刘娜
yǒu diǎn有点xiàngdànwán quán完全yī yàng一样dā zi搭子shìyì qǐ一起zuòyī jiàn一件shìderénbǐ rú比如fàndā zi搭子yùn dòng运动dā zi搭子kàndā zi搭子

It’s a bit like that, but not exactly. A dazi is someone you do a certain activity with, like a meal buddy, workout buddy, or drama-watching buddy.

优子
óxiǎngzhǎoyí gè一个huǒ guō火锅dā zi搭子yí gè一个rénchīhuǒ guō火锅tàijì mò寂寞le

Oh! Then I want to find a hotpot buddy. Eating hotpot alone is too lonely.

刘娜
kě yǐ可以axiàn zài现在hěnduōnián qīng rén年轻人xǐ huān喜欢zhǎodā zi搭子yīn wèi因为guān xì关系jiǎn dān简单bù yòng不用měi tiān每天liáo tiān聊天méi yǒu没有tàiyā lì压力

Sure. Many young people now like finding buddies because the relationship is simple. You don’t have to chat every day, and there isn’t much pressure.

优子
tīng qǐ lái听起来hěnhǎoxiǎngzhǎoyí gè一个gōng tíng jù宫廷剧dā zi搭子yī biān一边kàn jù看剧yī biān一边xuézhōng wén中文

That sounds great. I also want to find a palace-drama buddy so I can watch dramas and learn Chinese at the same time.

刘娜
zhè ge这个hěnshì hé适合bù guò不过rú guǒ如果shìzàiwǎng shàng网上rèn shí认识deréndì yī cì第一次jiàn miàn见面zuì hǎo最好xuǎnbái tiān白天rén duō人多dedì fāng地方

That really suits you. But if it’s someone you meet online, for the first meeting it’s best to choose daytime and a crowded place.

优子
míng bái明白hái yǒu还有bú yào不要wèntàiduōsī rén私人dewèn tí问题duìma

Got it. And I shouldn’t ask too many personal questions, right?

刘娜
duìdā zi搭子zhī jiān之间yàoyǒubiān jiè边界yì qǐ一起chī fàn吃饭kàn jù看剧hěnkāi xīn开心dànyàobǎo hù保护zì jǐ自己

Right. Buddies need boundaries. Eating together and watching dramas can be fun, but you also need to protect yourself.

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