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My Meal Buddy
yōu zi优子xiǎng想zhǎo找rén人yì qǐ一起chī fàn吃饭kàn看jù剧,liú nà刘娜gào sù告诉tā她“dā zi搭子”guān xì关系qīng sōng轻松dàn但yào要zhù yì注意biān jiè边界。

Yuko wants to find someone to eat with and watch dramas with. Liu Na tells her that a “buddy” relationship is relaxed, but boundaries are important.

优子
liú刘lǎo shī老师,wǒ我zuì jìn最近zài在wǎng shàng网上kàn dào看到yí gè一个cí词,jiào叫“dā zi搭子”。zhè这shì是péng yǒu朋友de的yì si意思ma吗?

Teacher Liu, I recently saw a word online: “dazi.” Does it mean friend?

刘娜
yǒu diǎn有点xiàng像,dàn但bù不wán quán完全yī yàng一样。dā zi搭子shì是yì qǐ一起zuò做yī jiàn一件shì事de的rén人,bǐ rú比如fàn饭dā zi搭子、yùn dòng运动dā zi搭子、kàn看jù剧dā zi搭子。

It’s a bit like that, but not exactly. A dazi is someone you do a certain activity with, like a meal buddy, workout buddy, or drama-watching buddy.

优子
ó哦!nà那wǒ我xiǎng想zhǎo找yí gè一个huǒ guō火锅dā zi搭子。yí gè一个rén人chī吃huǒ guō火锅,tài太jì mò寂寞le了。

Oh! Then I want to find a hotpot buddy. Eating hotpot alone is too lonely.

刘娜
kě yǐ可以a啊。xiàn zài现在hěn很duō多nián qīng rén年轻人xǐ huān喜欢zhǎo找dā zi搭子,yīn wèi因为guān xì关系jiǎn dān简单,bù yòng不用měi tiān每天liáo tiān聊天,yě也méi yǒu没有tài太dà大yā lì压力。

Sure. Many young people now like finding buddies because the relationship is simple. You don’t have to chat every day, and there isn’t much pressure.

优子
tīng qǐ lái听起来hěn很hǎo好。wǒ我yě也xiǎng想zhǎo找yí gè一个gōng tíng jù宫廷剧dā zi搭子,yī biān一边kàn jù看剧yī biān一边xué学zhōng wén中文。

That sounds great. I also want to find a palace-drama buddy so I can watch dramas and learn Chinese at the same time.

刘娜
zhè ge这个hěn很shì hé适合nǐ你。bù guò不过rú guǒ如果shì是zài在wǎng shàng网上rèn shí认识de的rén人,dì yī cì第一次jiàn miàn见面zuì hǎo最好xuǎn选bái tiān白天hé和rén duō人多de的dì fāng地方。

That really suits you. But if it’s someone you meet online, for the first meeting it’s best to choose daytime and a crowded place.

优子
míng bái明白。hái yǒu还有bú yào不要wèn问tài太duō多sī rén私人de的wèn tí问题,duì对ma吗?

Got it. And I shouldn’t ask too many personal questions, right?

刘娜
duì对。dā zi搭子zhī jiān之间yào要yǒu有biān jiè边界。yì qǐ一起chī fàn吃饭、kàn jù看剧hěn很kāi xīn开心,dàn但yě也yào要bǎo hù保护zì jǐ自己。

Right. Buddies need boundaries. Eating together and watching dramas can be fun, but you also need to protect yourself.

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