péi
陪
lín jū
邻居
nǎi nǎi
奶奶
,
gāi
该
bù gāi
不该
shōu
收
qián
钱
Should You Charge Your Elderly Neighbor for Keeping Her Company?
yuè lái yuè越来越duō多nián qīng rén年轻人dāng当“gòng xiǎng共享ér nǚ儿女”,péi bàn陪伴dú jū独居lǎo rén老人,yǒu de有的miǎn fèi免费,yǒu de有的àn按xiǎo shí小时shōu fèi收费。

More and more young people are becoming “shared children,” keeping elderly people who live alone company. Some do it for free, while others charge by the hour.

优子
lǎo shī老师,lóu xià楼下de的wáng nǎi nǎi王奶奶yí gè rén一个人zhù住。wǒ我cháng cháng常常qù去tā她jiā家péi陪tā她liáo tiān聊天,tā她jiāo教wǒ我shuō说shàng hǎi huà上海话,zuò做de的cài菜yě也tè bié特别hǎo chī好吃。

Teacher, Grandma Wang downstairs lives alone. I often go to her place to chat with her. She teaches me to speak Shanghainese, and the dishes she makes are delicious too.

刘娜
zhēn真hǎo好!nǐ你zhè这jiù shì就是xiàn zài现在hěn duō很多rén人shuō说de的“gòng xiǎng共享ér nǚ儿女”。

That’s wonderful! What you’re doing is what many people nowadays call being a “shared child.”

优子
gòng xiǎng共享ér nǚ儿女?kě可wǒ我bú shì不是tā她de的nǚ ér女儿ya呀。

A shared child? But I’m not her daughter.

刘娜
jiù shì就是yī xiē一些nián qīng rén年轻人,suī rán虽然gēn跟lǎo rén老人bú shì不是yī jiā rén一家人,dàn但huì会xiàng像ér nǚ儿女yī yàng一样péi陪zhe着tā men他们。yǒu de有的rén人bú yào不要qián钱,yǒu de有的rén人shōu收qián钱,yí gè一个xiǎo shí小时sān shí三十dào到yì bǎi一百kuài块。

It refers to young people who, although they aren’t related to the elderly, keep them company like their own children would. Some don’t charge, while others charge between 30 and 100 yuan an hour.

优子
guài bù dé怪不得!zuó tiān昨天wáng nǎi nǎi王奶奶shuō说,yǐ hòu以后měi cì每次gěi给wǒ我wǔ shí kuài五十块。wǒ我shuō说bú yào不要,tā她fēi yào非要gěi给。

No wonder! Yesterday Grandma Wang said she would give me 50 yuan each time from now on. I told her I didn’t want it, but she insisted.

刘娜
tā她kě néng可能shì是bù hǎo yì sī不好意思。nǐ你yě也yǒu有zì jǐ自己de的shì事,tā她bù xiǎng不想ràng让nǐ你bái bái白白huā shí jiān花时间。

She may feel embarrassed. You have things to do too, and she doesn’t want you to spend your time on her for nothing.

优子
kě shì可是shōu收le了qián钱,wǒ men我们jiù就bù不xiàng像péng yǒu朋友le了。

But if I accept the money, we won’t seem like friends anymore.

刘娜
nà那jiù就huàn换gè个bàn fǎ办法。wáng nǎi nǎi王奶奶bú shì不是huì会shuō说shàng hǎi huà上海话ma吗?nǐ你qǐng请tā她měi cì每次jiāo教nǐ你bàn gè半个xiǎo shí小时,zhè yàng这样shuí谁yě也bù不qiàn欠shuí谁。

Then try another approach. Grandma Wang can speak Shanghainese, right? Ask her to teach you for half an hour each time. That way, neither of you will feel indebted to the other.

优子
zhè ge这个bàn fǎ办法hǎo好!wǒ我míng tiān明天jiù就qù去gēn跟tā她shuō说,qǐng请tā她zuò做wǒ我de的shàng hǎi huà上海话lǎo shī老师。tā她tīng听le了yí dìng一定hěn很gāo xìng高兴。

That’s a great idea! I’ll go talk to her tomorrow and ask her to be my Shanghainese teacher. She’ll definitely be happy to hear that.

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